My Fiance Demanded Sex Before Marriage & My Life Got Ruined After That.................................................

I belong to a small city in UP and like some other families of such cities, my family is also quite conservative. We are not permitted to have boyfriend and go out to watch movies in theatres alone or with friends.

Today I am going to pen down a real life incident which ruined my life and added a dark chapter soaked with dirty spots that tarnished my identity to the core and I developed hatred for the male gender.

It’s said that Jodis are made in heaven and marriage is one of the most memorable occasions for a couple. I too was on the top of the world when my wedding was fixed with Rakesh. As I already told you about my family background, there’s absolutely no possibility of it being a love marriage.

How can I forget the day when he came to see me for the first time with his parents? I was dressed in a yellow saree and the elegant pearl necklace was adding to my beauty. I am an average girl and even though my complexion is wheatish, I have a nice face cut.

His family liked me and after a short chit-chat session in which we asked little about each other’s habits and hobbies, we also gave our consent for the relation. Roka (an auspicious occasion to confirm the marriage) was done that very day and I and Rakesh exchanged numbers too.

We started texting each other and sometimes, we used to talk till late night. Love was in the air, at least for me, and I secretly began to meet him in restaurants during college time. Yes, my college was not over and I was in the third year of B.A. Soon after exams, the marriage was scheduled to take place.

Only four months were left for the examinations but I couldn’t concentrate on studies. I actually fell in love with him and why not, he was the first man to come close to me. I was getting crazy with each passing moment and wanted to live every second with him. I wished time to fly and take me to our wedding day after which I will be his wife forever and won’t have to miss him day and night. However, destiny had some other plans and that unfortunate day brought a black chapter to my life’s book.

I was chatting with him on WhatsApp as usual and he made a demand which shocked me initially. He asked me to have sex before marriage and I didn’t know how to react. I loved him madly and couldn’t make him angry. I tried to convince him but he was adamant. At first, I thought of saying NO straightaway but I didn’t want to lose him. Anyhow I wanted to keep him happy and for this, I crossed that line.

Even though my conscious didn’t allow me for this, I went to the hotel room he booked for us. He appeared to be nice in the beginning and after our intercourse when we were about to return, he gave me the shock of a lifetime.

He cancelled the marriage and my only crime was that I fulfilled his demand. He said,

“If you had sex with me before marriage without much resistance, you would easily have it with anyone. I was examining you and you failed this test badly. I can’t tie knot with a pros like you who’s ready to sleep with any man for some fun without thinking of the reputation of her family. You have no character and you don’t deserve to be my wife.”

I couldn’t believe what I heard and burst into tears. Everything started rolling upside down and I didn’t have the energy even to move my feet. I managed myself somehow and returned home with a heavy heart. Tears were not getting stopped and I closed myself in my room. I was not in the condition to talk to anyone or have food. I just told my mother that I had a splitting headache and wanted to sleep. She asked me to have a cup of tea or food but I shouted at the top of my voice and then only, tears came in my eyes. She was shocked at my reaction and after shutting the door, I started crying bitterly.

Rakesh told everything to his family; his father called my parents and cancelled the marriage. My parents kept on saying that there must be some misunderstanding and there’s no spot in their daughter’s character but they were in no mood to listen and disconnected the call. I never saw my parents crying ocean of tears but that ill-fated day shook our family and I was not able to have eye contact with them.

Such things spread like wood fire and my image was blemished. I had to listen to unpleasant comments wherever I went and that’s why, I stopped stepping out of the house. Our family had been isolated and no relative or neighbour preferred to come to our home.

I was broken but then I made up mind of doing something to come over this grief which snatched happiness of not only me but also my family. Exam time was coming near; I buried my past and focused completely on studies. My hard work paid and I topped the exam. Many years have passed and currently I am a lecturer in a top college. But horrible memories of that terrible incident are still fresh in my mind and later I decided not to have any other man in my life.

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